All right all right…I started my day today with a little tit tat with mom…the topic…. for me to get married...

 With one of my friends wedding card sitting on my table and a phone call from another friend of mine that she is expecting for the second time does that gives the indication that my clock is ticking too…

Is it important that the ultimate goal of life has to be for a girl to get married and get settled…can’t a girl have a choice of making a mark in her career first ..fulfilling all her dreams and then thinking about settling down..

As for me I never said that I don’t want to get married and yes I do realize that I am at a an age where most of my friends and colleagues are married or enaged..and well even parents….but I never denied the fact that I will never get married..but I think it’s a little unfair for parents to get on to your case for this…

Normally this doesn’t happen too often only when mom sees an invitation card for a friend or a cousin of my same age or may be younger..or the phone calls of my friends becoming or about to become proud parents….

Well now as getting well settled in my career I think it’s time I find myself an eligible guy to get married to…may be mom will be happy….

So all my ilander friends wish me best of luck in my pursuit for the same…